Dating and Domestic Violence Information

Dating or domestic violence is a form of abuse that occurs in intimate relationships when one person uses fear and intimidation tactics to establish power and control over another person. Examples of dating or domestic violence include threatening a partner or their family, coercing them into doing something they don’t want to do, constantly belittling them, controlling what they can and cannot do, deciding who they can go out with and when, isolating them from friends and family, controlling their finances and access to resources, or physically hitting, kicking, punching, slapping, or scratching. Dating and domestic violence can also include sexual violence or stalking.

Domestic violence can happen to people of all ages, races, ethnicities, and religions. It occurs in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. While it is important to remember that we all have different cultural practices, beliefs, and experiences that shape our view of what intimate relationships look like, everyone deserves to feel safe and respected.

No one deserves to be abused. Abuse is never the victim’s fault! If you have been the victim of dating or domestic violence, you are not alone. Help is available. Please see the links below and to the right for resources and for more information about dating and domestic violence.

What Dating and Domestic Violence Looks Like

Dating and Domestic Violence: Understanding the Basics

Warning Signs of an Abuser

Emotional Health and Safety

Resources for Victims of Sexual Assault, Dating/Domestic Violence, or Stalking

Student Success Comments & Questions

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Office of the Dean of Students/Student Advocacy and Judicial Affairs

After an Assault (Rape Crisis Center)

UW Police Department

Rape Crisis Center

Domestic Abuse Intervention Services

Madison Police Department

New Social Security Numbers for Domestic Violence Victims

Restraining Orders and Arrests (Dane Co. Sheriff)

Raising Voices: UW Students' Personal Stories of Dating Violence (pdf)

Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

Student Success Comments & Questions